comp56 Posted November 5, 2015 Report Share Posted November 5, 2015 funny how in North America, if a husband and wife split the wife gets usually 50% or more.......back in the old country......Italy in my case if the same thing happens the husband decides regardless of what happened..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
optimistspencer Posted November 5, 2015 Report Share Posted November 5, 2015 One of my Co-Workers went through a very similar situation 5 years ago. He got a call one day from a bill collector about a credit card bill he didn't owe, or so he thought. Come to find out, his stay at home wife ran up $60,000 on a credit card he knew nothing about. She was having the bill mailed to a friends house. Had absolutely nothing to show for it either.Come to find out, about half of it was spent ordering lortab from Mexico, the rest was spent on spa days for her and a couple of her friends, and she's spend over $10,000 on designer purses. I'd like to think that's an obscene amour, but I could spent that on tools before daylight, so I'll give her the benefit of the doubt there. They had 4 kids and he got raped in the divorce. After he paid child support, the house & car payment, and all the other shit he was ordered to pay, he had $36 left to live on. He lived in an old camper in his mom's yard for about a year. Eventually she fucked up though. She was on pills, the kids missed 40 days of school, she was dating an ex-con, and he ended up with the kids. Good luck brother. I certainly hope all goes well for you.Holy. Fucking. Shit. I've heard somebad stories but 60K on lortab and spas... And she didn't even get charged by illegally ordering lortab until after the fact? I swear, shit like that is what makes me question living in the US. $36... Atrocious.Sent from my One M8 using Tapatalk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Conductor562 Posted November 6, 2015 Report Share Posted November 6, 2015 Holy. Fucking. Shit. I've heard somebad stories but 60K on lortab and spas... And she didn't even get charged by illegally ordering lortab until after the fact? I swear, shit like that is what makes me question living in the US. $36... Atrocious.Sent from my One M8 using TapatalkYea, tell me about it, and SHE STILL GOT CUSTODY OF THE KIDS!!!It worked out for him, but it was a tough row to hoe for awhile. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hugh Jass Posted November 6, 2015 Report Share Posted November 6, 2015 One of my Co-Workers went through a very similar situation 5 years ago. He got a call one day from a bill collector about a credit card bill he didn't owe, or so he thought. Come to find out, his stay at home wife ran up $60,000 on a credit card he knew nothing about. She was having the bill mailed to a friends house. Had absolutely nothing to show for it either. Come to find out, about half of it was spent ordering lortab from Mexico, the rest was spent on spa days for her and a couple of her friends, and she's spend over $10,000 on designer purses. I'd like to think that's an obscene amour, but I could spent that on tools before daylight, so I'll give her the benefit of the doubt there. They had 4 kids and he got raped in the divorce. After he paid child support, the house & car payment, and all the other shit he was ordered to pay, he had $36 left to live on. He lived in an old camper in his mom's yard for about a year. Eventually she fucked up though. She was on pills, the kids missed 40 days of school, she was dating an ex-con, and he ended up with the kids. Good luck brother. I certainly hope all goes well for you. Better man than me, I'd be all over CNN...channeling the kind of revenge Killdozer brings to mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
comp56 Posted November 6, 2015 Report Share Posted November 6, 2015 in most cases it is not always one person's fault.......there are always 2 sides to a story Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Conductor562 Posted November 6, 2015 Report Share Posted November 6, 2015 in most cases it is not always one person's fault.......there are always 2 sides to a storyVery true. But women are always the crazy one of the pair. That never changes. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kruton Posted November 6, 2015 Report Share Posted November 6, 2015 Very true. But women are always the crazy one of the pair. That never changes.This should be a quote somewhere on the forum that never goes away! Preach on brother!Sent from my SM-N900V using Tapatalk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nordraw Posted November 6, 2015 Report Share Posted November 6, 2015 That's tough, can't say I haven't been there myself. It's a hard thing to overcome but as they say time heals all wounds and it pretty much does. By this time next year your life will be good and you will be healed and in a better place and you will be thinking "how did I ever get in that mess". Good luck, and it will all work out for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WigWagWorkshop Posted November 6, 2015 Author Report Share Posted November 6, 2015 in most cases it is not always one person's fault.......there are always 2 sides to a storyVery true, not saying I was perfect, I have some faults.... I am guy LOL. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fazzman Posted November 6, 2015 Report Share Posted November 6, 2015 Been there done that myself in the past,best thing i ever did because my current wife is awesome. Been remarried 7 years now and its been the best. Take your time to be you and keep on going bro. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
regopit Posted November 9, 2015 Report Share Posted November 9, 2015 Very true. But women are always the crazy one of the pair. That never changes.For some unknown reason I'm attracted to crazy woman.The first wife was boarded line insane but we had a blast up till the day she passed away. I've been with my second wife for 20 years now 11 of them married. On the crazy scale 1 - 10 she would rate a 9 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WigWagWorkshop Posted November 9, 2015 Author Report Share Posted November 9, 2015 Hmmm, with all the latest forum changes going on, maybe we should start a relationship support group category. Red Green had one at the possum lodge.... Seriously though, I am hammered and in good spirits.. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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