WigWagWorkshop Posted November 4, 2015 Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Good Day Crew! Well, sometimes your're the bug and sometimes your're the windshield. Has of today, me and the ol' lady are no longer one. I have had enough of her bullshit, time for her to pound sand. Not going to lie it does hurt, but at some point one needs to make a decision. For the past 10 years, I been the "bread winner", I was more than happy to let her stay at home, and take care of the household. I found out that she was not taking care of medical bills, and ran up my credit cards and decided it was not important to pay them. So now, need to figure a bunch of shit out, cry a tear in beer LOL, and figure out what to do with all this extra room I am going to have..... I will post some updates, has things play out.... -Steven Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
comp56 Posted November 4, 2015 Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 sorry to hear...good luck....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChrisK Posted November 4, 2015 Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Steven, I'm really sorry to hear that. Keep the faith bro. Find somebody to talk to outside of work. Now's the time when you find out who your real friends are. Rely on them and family. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kruton Posted November 4, 2015 Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Hate to hear that man. You know the crew has your back if you need to blow off some steam.Sent from my SM-N900V using Tapatalk 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JimboS1ice Posted November 4, 2015 Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Good Day Crew! Well, sometimes your're the bug and sometimes your're the windshield. Has of today, me and the ol' lady are no longer one. I have had enough of her bullshit, time for her to pound sand. Not going to lie it does hurt, but at some point one needs to make a decision. For the past 10 years, I been the "bread winner", I was more than happy to let her stay at home, and take care of the household. I found out that she was not taking care of medical bills, and ran up my credit cards and decided it was not important to pay them. So now, need to figure a bunch of shit out, cry a tear in beer LOL, and figure out what to do with all this extra room I am going to have..... I will post some updates, has things play out.... -StevenGood luck to you brother, we're all here for ya, sounds like you need some time with a sawzall and a sledge hammer! lol 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hugh Jass Posted November 4, 2015 Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Hopefully the accounts are in her name and not yours, otherwise that's what really grinds my gears. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WigWagWorkshop Posted November 4, 2015 Author Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Steven, I'm really sorry to hear that. Keep the faith bro. Find somebody to talk to outside of work. Now's the time when you find out who your real friends are. Rely on them and family.Yeah, Unfortunately I really don't have any true friends anymore, once I moved out here to Ohio, I lost touch with the couple friends I did have. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WigWagWorkshop Posted November 4, 2015 Author Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Running up credit cards, and not paying them, that = ultimate douchery. I have a motto, use your brain, don't be a douche, she's clearly not keeping it real with her douchery behavior. I am sorry to hear about this, but knowing what know, I have to agree with your decision. I am in credit debt as well, but I am being responsible making payments. I couldn't live with myself if I racked up multiple credit card debt and not paid it. She clearly thinks she's the queen of sheba, yeah well, the queen is about to be kicked out on her ass. lolWell unfortunately they were in my name. When I first met her, she was living in a shit-hole run downed apartment working a crappy retail job. We moved in together in a better apartment, but a not so good neighborhood out of my desperation to get her out of her current apartment. My credit is fucked, but the house is mine (well the banks) until I pay it off LOL. Bottom line, I took her from living in shit, to a beautiful house, stability, let her stay at home to concentrate on her son that has a ton of mental issues, and was always an honest guy that stayed at home in his workshop, never went out to taverns coming home drunk, or cheating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WigWagWorkshop Posted November 4, 2015 Author Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Hate to hear that man. You know the crew has your back if you need to blow off some steam.Sent from my SM-N900V using TapatalkThanks Man! I am a mellow guy, just going to pound some of my private stock top shelf bourbon, watch the local election results, and crank some tunage..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bigmikez Posted November 4, 2015 Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Man bro sorry to hear about that man I hope ur doing ok and like the guys already said keep faith an know that the crews here for u man. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbw55 Posted November 4, 2015 Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Sorry to hear about your bump in the road man......I think you need to treat your self to a new tool 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
comp56 Posted November 4, 2015 Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Sorry to hear about your bump in the road man......I think you need to treat your self to a new tool but not a chain saw..... 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poisonfangs85 Posted November 4, 2015 Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Hard to hear things like that man. Keep your chin up and turn the page. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WigWagWorkshop Posted November 4, 2015 Author Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 but not a chain saw.....LOL, but that was next on my list! After seeing the awesome coverage of GIE by TIA, the new battery powered chainsaws are at the top of my list. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WigWagWorkshop Posted November 4, 2015 Author Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Hard to hear things like that man. Keep your chin up and turn the page.Already measuring one of the bedrooms for my new Model Railroad Layout. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WigWagWorkshop Posted November 4, 2015 Author Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Man bro sorry to hear about that man I hope ur doing ok and like the guys already said keep faith an know that the crews here for u man.Well, 90/10 - 90% to the positive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poisonfangs85 Posted November 4, 2015 Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Already measuring one of the bedrooms for my new Model Railroad Layout.Sounds like instead of turning the page ur just burning that book . 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mondo1310 Posted November 4, 2015 Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Sorry to hear that Steven. Just try to keep your head and know the crew here for you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WigWagWorkshop Posted November 4, 2015 Author Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Sorry to hear that Steven. Just try to keep your head and know the crew here for you.Thanks Mondo! I know it will be rough for a bit, when one has a certain routine for 10 years it takes a bit to make a new routine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JerryNY Posted November 4, 2015 Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 Getting screwed over credit card debt sucks, but in the scheme of things it's just money; just keep in mind things could be much worse. You've seen her true colors, better now than later... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
optimistspencer Posted November 4, 2015 Report Share Posted November 4, 2015 That's awful, man. I can't give you any real advice, but if you need to talk to someone, we're always open.Sent from my One M8 using Tapatalk 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EEtwidget Posted November 5, 2015 Report Share Posted November 5, 2015 Sorry brother, no matter the reason it can't be easy. I hope you don't live in California, although I would like to check out your shop... Out here she would own the house.I think you should rent that extra room to a Veteran attending college. But I'm biased, I was homeless for a bit while attending college the first year.In the end just keep doing the things that make you happy and the rest will fall into place. Go build something and post some more videos. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Conductor562 Posted November 5, 2015 Report Share Posted November 5, 2015 One of my Co-Workers went through a very similar situation 5 years ago. He got a call one day from a bill collector about a credit card bill he didn't owe, or so he thought. Come to find out, his stay at home wife ran up $60,000 on a credit card he knew nothing about. She was having the bill mailed to a friends house. Had absolutely nothing to show for it either. Come to find out, about half of it was spent ordering lortab from Mexico, the rest was spent on spa days for her and a couple of her friends, and she's spend over $10,000 on designer purses. I'd like to think that's an obscene amour, but I could spent that on tools before daylight, so I'll give her the benefit of the doubt there. They had 4 kids and he got raped in the divorce. After he paid child support, the house & car payment, and all the other shit he was ordered to pay, he had $36 left to live on. He lived in an old camper in his mom's yard for about a year. Eventually she fucked up though. She was on pills, the kids missed 40 days of school, she was dating an ex-con, and he ended up with the kids. Good luck brother. I certainly hope all goes well for you. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeyB Posted November 5, 2015 Report Share Posted November 5, 2015 Sorry to hear this WigWag, keep the faith brother 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WigWagWorkshop Posted November 5, 2015 Author Report Share Posted November 5, 2015 Well I am happy it's under $10,000, and the house is 100% mine - that is loan to the bank lol. The hardest thing I have deal with is, I became kind of a recluse when we got together, and I don't have any close friends here, has I just moved here from another state, and never really socialized much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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